I really hate dentists .... to the point i neglected going for a few years & then needed 6 fillings all at the same time (was sedated thankfully) .... i shake everytime i'm in the chair.
However, no matter how bad it is, i've learnt that it is actually less painful in the long term to keep on top of it & go to the 6 month check ups.
As much as i hate being in that chair & dread them telling me i need work doing, it's overall less stressful than not going & then ending up with major issues.
I didn't go for 7 years!! Finally went, two babies later and the conclusion from the Eastern European dentist was "you make good money you sell your teeth in my country"!
Went again after three years and was told my teeth were amazing by another dr! That was 4 years ago and it's finally coughs up with me