Thought I'd give an update - everything is all over & done with now., not as scary as I'd imagined it to be, still not very nice at all.
I had medical managment & it didn't work, it all happened at home naturally, but I had 2cm of retained products so had to wait another 2 weeks to see if it resolved its self.
A scan 2 days ago has now shown everything is ok, so back on to ivf in April, I could've started sooner but think my body needs a few weeks rest.
What's the saying, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger x