Much great advice given here.
Basically.. my feelings are this:
She's a biter.. so she will pick and nibble and cause stress to the enhancements no matter what and she will LIE about it (though much is an unconcious habit).
AND if she refuses to come in and have them sorted, too bad.
Absolutely no refund.
The one and only time I agreed to a refund was if the client presented herself for a soak-off. Oh H*** no am I letting someone run around with free nails.
She actually did show up BUT 6 of 10 of them had been PICKED off and the telltale damage was everywhere. She tried to claim they had fallen off, but I used the paper/glue analogy, and because she had agree to the paper/glue analogy; she realized she'd sunk herself (example of paper/glue analogy convo with client is below).
Sooo no refund was given, obviously.
She hasn't a leg to stand on, and likely knows it, hence her not replying to your phone calls, nor letting you have a look-see at her nails.
Stick to your guns.
Ok, my "Paper-glue" analogy that makes pickers-biters confess.
Me: I see some damage here, it appears that they might have gotten whacked in a door or something (giving benefit of the doubt, and an escape from 'picking'), That must have hurt?
Client: No, I haven't knocked them, I've been very gentle with them. I'm not hard on my hands. They just fell off
Me: Hmmm... Perhaps it fell off after it was knocked. Sometimes we knock them, and don't realize and they pop later because they're barely hanging on. Here, have a look with your hand under the UV lamp. See all the white? That's damaged/torn nail plate.
See, there's only damage from force either by whacking them or picking them. Let me give you an example.
Ok, here are two pieces of paper. I will lay one on top of the other. If you lift the top one off, what happens to the one underneath?
Client: Nothing...
ME: Ok. So that means that the two pieces of paper were not stuck together?
Client: Right
Me: Now if I lay this sheet of paper here. Then put glue on it. Then lay another sheet on top, press it down into the glue and let it dry. Now, if you then try to lift the upper sheet off the lower one, what happens?
Client: The paper tears.
Me: Ok, so the tears/damage means that they were stuck together, right? And if they are not stuck together, then there is no damage to be found.
Client: (looking sheepish as lightbulb turns on)
ME: Look, I'm a former biter. I DO understand temptation and how sometimes we unconciously nibble. It's harder to quit than smoking because it's an unconcious thing whereas smoking requires you dig for a lighter and pull out your smokes. I can help you with this..... etc.......
This conversation has never failed one single time, and no biter/picker can refute the logic of it.
Hope it helps
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