Don't know how to get the right colour

[KattCrane]

I recently dyed my hair ash blonde as bright blonde does not suit me.
However in the ash is a shade that is similar to the sliver that is going around. However the colour I am after is is a dark ash colour similar to silver(but I don't want it to look grey!! help!!!
I'm sorry it's hard to understand

Also help on taming frizz mine isn't so bad but products i try just don't work!
at the moment i use Aussie frizz and John freeda.

 

[Changez]

Put a little scoop of powdered bleach mixed with 30ml of 10 vol peroxide, add 15 ml of water, 1 generous squeeze of ord shampoo and mix together. Apply to hair like a shampoo, rub in for 2-3 mins then rinse off. Condition well. This is mild bleach shampoo which will open the hair cuticle a free the ash tone. You should be ride of any unwante grey.