This is a subject very close to my heart at the moment my ex partner and her boyfriend are living in a house i own !! i pay 530 a month on the mortgage the CSA have assessed me at 460 but have accepted that my mortgage payment is a financial commitment to my children and they are ok with it
Her boyfriend has a flat It is empty and just a post box!!
he lives at my old house that i own in every sense of the word he has 2 cars and a work van on my drive!!
She is on benefits and because he has is own place i cant prove a thing!!
I can see what your saying but....
1) its an investment and YOU own it so only YOU will benefit from it when you can eventually sell it.
2) you are providing a roof over your kids heads...:hug:
A friend of mine has split from her partner...they have 2 kids....he is refusing to leave the house and she cant buy him out....so she has to find somewhere to live and he is going to buy her out....so the kids will have to move house...leave their bedrooms...and she will have to rent somewhere.
I can see both sides though. He isn't the one who actually wants to split up.