persianista
Well-Known Member
I doubt very much that you are remotely interested in anything I have to say, and I'm loathe to give you further ammunition for cheap shots. X
You made a fantasic point!!! there are two categories!!!I think this could fall into two categories. The realistic newbie who will ask questions and soak up all the good advice given by us oldies who have been in the business for a long long time and have made a success of it. The others are the unrealistic, who seem to think that anyone who is a business owner or self employed make millions. This is our society I am afraid. My son is 16, I was a single parent for 8 years and I would pick him up from school and he would come back to work with me evenings and weekends. He understands the work ethic and that things do not happen overnight. The vast majority of his friends, however, think they will get their first jobs and will earn £30,000 plus!
I have seen people in their 20's still living at home, not because they couldn't afford what I started in, a bedsit. They don't see why they should leave home unless they have a 4 bed detached to move into, fully furnished with brand new furniture etc. I, personally, my opinion is that parents, out of love, will do too much for their kids and society backs them up with a load of marketing garbage that tells them they can have it all!
I started out mobile, really hard work, and now work from home, am fully booked every day that I choose to work. This sounds wonderful to someone just coming into the business. The reality was training as a new mum at 37, taking to school, travelling in all weathers, collecting from school, no lunch, going back to work with child in tow after school and working 7 days a week at first. I have been in this business for 15 years so I deserve to have a regular clientelle.
I have replied to a few of these posts where they have been going for a couple of months but when you tell them it takes time it is just not what they want to hear. I feel sorry for our children as they are surrounded by unrealistic expectations that can only lead to disappointment.
I could talk about this subject forever! :biggrin:
if i wasnt interested i wouldnt have asked you! ok fair enough.I doubt very much that you are remotely interested in anything I have to say, and I'm loathe to give you further ammunition for cheap shots. X
Of course it is shared experience, but only worthwhile if you wish to accept the opinions you ask for. (not you personally, I mean in general)
Did I have an advantage? Nope.
Did I start a business as soon as I qualified? Nope.
Did I do crap jobs at low (pitiful) wage to put myself through college? yup.
Salon experience is not "an advantage" its the way most of us earn't our wages for years on end in order to live. I was a single girl and had to earn a living to pay my mortgage, I didn't work for the fun of it! It took me fifteen years before I could afford my own salon. I really don't call that "an advantage"
Some of us do this for a living , we dont just play at "salons" This was and still is my only career, if you wish to see;
1 working 7 days a week
2 never having kids
3 being responsible for 4 properties
4 not having holidays
5 compromising my friends and social life
as having "an advantage" then really you need to open your eyes.
Good for you!! It sounds very exciting (and brave) this is an example of the point i am trying to make , (although this is obviously a much bigger project than i have decided to take on) but if you do the ground work and have the business experience why wouldn't you make it? i think theres as good a chance as any!!!! or it is naive to think if you dont have years hard slog as a salon junior on your cv then you might aswell not even give it a go?Hi, I found your comments really interesting, especially the last few lines. You wouldn't do what you do if you didn't get some personal payoff from it (noboby would or, indeed, does) so what do you get from it? Working 7 days a week, never having childen etc doesn't sound really great but it must work for you in some way or you wouldn't do it. I'm definitely not criticising you, I find your threads informative and stimulating, but I'm definitely curious!
I'll level with you, I'm just about to open a salon in two weeks time. I have no beauty experience - I have business acumen and experience, have had a wide and varied career as a PA, in sales, as an airport duty manager and now in chiropody so have dealt with public, budgets, starting a career and a client base from scratch.. My view is that I have saved the capital to start up with (but wish I had saved double, lol), I have very carefully recruited a salon manager, therapist and reception staff and am co-locating my existing thriving foot health clinic with the salon (think top to toe, or feet and face!) and have just the very best location (and the landlord has refurbed to my spec, and paid for the majority of it). So although I don't specifically have beauty experience, I'm going for it. I have to say I couldn't have done it (and wouldn't have contemplated it) without the experience and wisdom of my salon manager... Watch this space, if I fall flat on my proverbial, you can wipe my eyes and tell me you told me so lol....
Keep the honesty and directness coming, I find it refreshing - scary too!
Take care, MrsMac
so what are you saying then? as i said before i am genuinely interested, do you think i am wasting my time attemting to start my business without experience working in the beauty industry before hand? i know people who have started in the same way and now have a thriving business.Read it carefully again. She has bought in the expertise she needs. In the same way I pay for accountancy and staff to do the work that I don't do...... Big difference.
so what are you saying then? as i said before i am genuinely interested, do you think i am wasting my time attemting to start my business without experience working in the beauty industry before hand? i know people who have started in the same way and now have a thriving business.
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