My story is one of ups and downs really, I remember having my first set of nail enhancements god i don't know how many moons ago, but i do know it was a full on set of mma's you remember the ones that no bugger will ever get off. I also remember catching my finger and ripping my natural one up, gaining an infection and walking about for god knows how long with a green stinky finger. (it put me off doing nails)
I met my son's father at 17 and his mother was a therapist, constantly telling me how I was waisting my tallents as I was always in ore of her and i should go and train to be a beauty therapist, well a few years later 1993 I believe it was I took her advice and booked my place on an NVQ beauty therapy course, evenings as i worked in the day, total cost then was £1500.00 I had taken a bank loan out and was very excited. I went for around 3 months, looked forward to it every week and was enjoying every min of it, until I went one night and saw that all the door plaques had gone! the whole place was empty and no one was around, the whole place had disapeared so to speak.
The chap running it had cleared of with my £1500 and around 9 other girls money, so we were left all with massive bank loans and nothing to show for it, no qualifications. I contacted babtac and cibtac and just about everyone but to no avail. Again put right of the idea once again.
A few years later I was thinking about it all and decided to name and shame him in the newspapers in fact it was 1996 3 years on, my son was born and creeping up to around 10moths old and my sons fathers mum the theraoist sadly lost her life to cancer, i wanted to follow her passion in the beauty world in memory really. I had a call from a local salon who had said they were so discusted with what had happened they would fund my tuition and I could sit my exams and training with them. So I decided it would be good, paid for a child minder 3 days a week and went back, however I was to work two and a half days for this salon free of charge in order to have one evenings worth of training.
I gained my NVQ level 2 qualification and also did all the training for level 3 and baby massage, however things were not so great, i was being used badly running about and doing things I should not have been for absolutly no wages at all, being talked to like dirt in front of clients and treated like a cheep slave, it is a long story but I obtained the nvq and tried to ask for the rest I had trained so hard to get but again to no avail, so left. Again well put off.
Things went from bad to worse I split with my sons father after a terrible time to include more abuse and gave up on nearly everything to be honest. Then last year I was just plodding about trying to find a career path and decided that I would try again 3rd time lucky and all that, so from home under no one else I set up a tiny weeny little home based business doing the bare minimum. Consentrating on Nails but with the view to slowly expanding and introducing my other qualifications along with hoping to gain more. 8 months on and a whopping 4 regular clients on LOL and a mother in law that is forever needing a nail repair I am finaly feeling comfortable and almost like I have found my path.
I intend to stick with it this time and yes I love nails and the biggest reason that I have the will to suceed now is this site and the great people on it, I have had such lovely comments great advice and met up with Denise whom I think is just a great inspiration, along with many others of course. I will suceed and I will do my self proud well and my lovely son, so thank you to all you fellor geeks and geekettes you have certainly made my third attempt in this world worth while.
Grace x