Nice cup of tea anyone.
Cup of tea, slice of cake and a chill pill would be good.
It's always interesting when you get two strongly internally referenced individuals who both have a clear sense of what is 'right' disagreeing, especially when both feel the need to have the last word. You can see the disagreement spiraling to nuclear Armageddon because neither can get out of the spiral.
The dilemma is whether stopping will be seen as strength or weakness, both internally as well as externally. The trouble with spirals is that there is a point after which both participants go beyond the line that the audience consider reasonable and the argument is lost for both of them.
In terms of client behaviours (and this is a generalisation), if one is risk averse in ones patterns, one would tend not to have laser eye surgery, botox, face lifts etc unless there was a driver that overrode it. (e.g I know someone who I would rate as risk averse who had a significant breast reduction because the reduction was more important than the risk.) Similarly those who filter out the negatives will go for invasive treatments with little thought of the long term affects because it gives them what they want now.
There will always be clients who will go for botox, smoke, use sunbeds, have face lifts and others that will avoid them. If there are consequences, there are consequences - they will have to live with it.
Having read through the thread I was thinking that it is great we have a wide range of options for clients and it's great that practitioners are passionate about what they do.
Now I don't want to get all linguistically picky but I thought agreeing to disagree was an end point, not a tagline
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