Thanks for pointing out the pecking order, Mrs C., I'll make sure I don't get outta line again if I can help it. I don't think I've ever been called arrogant before. Usually, people tell me to stop hiding my light under a bushel. However, now that I've had both a MOD and a long standing experienced geek tell me to belt up and toe the party line, I'll tuck my little old culturally ignorant, obnoxious, arrogant tail between my legs and slink on home.
I never wanted to be anything other than helpful and occasionally humorous to my fellow posters and if I have offended the MODs and the older long standing experienced geeks such as Mrs Clooney and Geeg, I offer humblest apologies and mea culpas. I only wanted to offer a rope of kindness to a floundering newb but if anethema is the cost, so be it. Maybe if I'm lucky, I can still catch the penance express to purgatory and eventually get a ticket back from Coventry instead of going straight to H*ll for my sins.
Ok, this thread has now totally gone off track! However, I do feel the need to reply and clear up any misunderstanding.
My comments were
in no way directed at you Lambrosia, believe it or not! I actually thought your post was constructive and kind towards new and struggling geeks. I in no way told you to
belt up or toe the line, in fact I felt my previous post was very polite. I have just reread and still feel the same way.
Firstly, I am
not a longstanding and experienced geek or in any pecking order. I have only been on this site for a little over two and a half years (it will be three in Feb next year) and my experience in the nail industry equates to the same amount of time. This is peanuts compared to the wealth of experience some of the geeks have on this site. But I have learned so much about nails, enhancements, beauty etc from those very geeks sharing their knowledge and experience, which I would never have learned in a classroom in a month of Sundays.
Those are the longstanding and experienced geeks I was referring to.
I have also seen other geeks being nurtured by the experienced ones and the progress they make by the valuable guidance on this site is amazing! I myself, chose to go into the beauty industry largely through my involvement on this site and if you check my profile you will see that I am currently a new beauty student and receiving guidance by
those experienced geeks.
However, from time to time, geeks behaviour can become a bit obnoxious and provocative, showing no respect for the site whatsoever. We have seen a little of this lately and the responses given by the more experienced geeks may be seen as being patronizing and condescending. 'Ropes of kindness' are often offered to the floundering newbies' (to quote you), but their sometimes arrogant responses are very disheartening to the geeks who put so much of their time, effort and engergy (all for free) into supporting them.
This is the point I was making.
Often we don't see alot of what goes on behind the scenes, for example, in pm's. Sometimes taunting, unpleasant posts are made, which some geeks see, but then the poster deletes them. However, the comments were made and viewed by some, so what may appear to be innocent, actually was not.
Many geeks have come onto this site and trod on somebodies feet or said something which offends another geek
(mostly without intent to hurt) ,
myself included. We don't all always agree with eachother but we pick up the pieces and we move on. The sharing and the support, the teaching and the nurturing continues.
Now, I'm going to make myself another hot cuppa :green:. Happy geeking everybody! xx